Monday, December 26, 2005


MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM THE GILBERT GIRLS!!!

Tuesday, December 06, 2005

Buried Alive With Work.

You lot are a disappointment sometimes! I want more memories, and specific ones. I'd do it for you! =)

Anyhow, the reason I've been entirely absent for a while is that work has reached its climax for the year. If I make it through this Thursday, I should be fine.

Anyhow, I just wanted to leave a post to remind myself of a few things I need to write about. Think of it as a preview.

-The Smiths
-Thanksgiving Break
-"boss" and "bitchin"
-Measure for Measure
-Bands I have just discovered (Architecture in Helsinki, Decemberists, etc.)

I think there probably was more, once upon a time, but my memory is shot to shit right now, due to the insane amount of information I have absorbed in the past week.

Hope you all are doing fine and not in any way contemplating suicide.

Saturday, December 03, 2005

Stolen from Paul

Stolen from Sophois:

"If you're reading this, even if we don't speak often, please post a comment with a memory of you and I. It can be anything you want - good or bad! When you're finished why not post this little paragraph on your own LJ and be surprised (or mortified) about what people remember about you?"

Monday, November 21, 2005

Cool link

Stolen from Amy Scheider's boyfriend Matt's AIM profile.

Christmas movies.

So, as many of you know, I purchased a significant amount of Christmas time DVDs last week. Well, I adore Amazon, because they arrived two days after I ordered them. Today, I took to watching White Christmas with my dinner. I just finished, and I think it might be my favorite Christmas film. And it really highlighted the inner reasons why I (and probably most who celebrate it) love Christmas. The joy, the kindness, the caring, the spirit of goodwill that accompanies this season is truly astonishing. I've never had a bad Christmas, and for that I am extremely thankful. I suppose I have more of my mother in me than I had previously thought, because it was really her that has instilled within me a sincere appreciation for my own true meaning of Christmas. As Hugh Grant so brilliantly quotes in About A Boy - "no man is an island" - and I believe it. A life without others in it is hardly worth living (unless you're a tortured, extremely talented artist, of course). ;-)
The thing is, we are all so truly blessed, it's a shame that we need an annual holiday to remind us of it. But when that time does come around, we all should really take advantage of that moment to dwell on all the gifts that life has bestowed upon us. I know this is all sounding very Christian, but for me, the meaning of the season has always been a meditation on those who are important in my life and how much better they make living. My family and friends have meant so much to me over the years, and I hope that I have never done anything to make any of you doubt how much I care for you. I hope all of you take the holiday season (whatever holiday you may be celebrating, or even if you celebrate none at all, take the time given to us for a winter break) to appreciate your own special ones. Those of you who know what I've been dealing with this semester can probably understand why I've let this season come quite early into my life; it's just something I needed. So curl up, watch White Christmas (even if you don't practice Christianity, it is still a great film), and think about ways to show those you love how much you are grateful for them.

Plus, I always had a weird semi-crush on Danny Kaye. Yeah, I'm a freak. =)

Sunday, November 20, 2005

I'm a kick ass cook.

Seriously, if this weekend has taught me anything, it's that, in the kitchen, I probably put most of you to shame. =) Just kidding. Although in the course of the weekend, I made a delicous pork roast, pumpkin pie, and tequila smoothies. The tequila smoothies are, of course, an interesting story.

So, Saturday night, Brigit and I were having some friends over to chill out, drink and play boardgames. We wanted to make some margaritas, and there was some leftover Strawberry Margarita Mix in our fridge we were planning on using. What we weren't planning on, was the absence of any frozen H2O from our home. Seriously, there was not a single piece of ice in the entire place. There was lots of semi-frozen water on its way to becoming ice, but no ice. So we had to improvise. We raided the freezers in search of frozen fruit and made what was essentially a breakfast time smoothies with lots of tequila in it. It felt so naughty to drink it! It was just so healthy and yet so physically devastating. =)

Friday night, after seeing Harry Potter 4 (which I will review soon), I just chilled. I took this Harry Potter preceptorial (basically a class for fun, no grades, and you only meet three times a semester) so I got my ticket for free. The movie itself was pretty much what I expected - fun, highly entertaining, some great moments, but all in all, disappointing to those who have read the books. Now this is no one's fault: the book is HUGE! And those damn kid actors are growing up so fast - doing it in 2 parts is out of the question. There was just so much I would have loved to see on screen that they didn't even include. And with the exception of the notorious three - no other character had any sort of significant role, not even Dumbledore (speaking of whom, I soooo prefer Richard Harris!) - which is a shame, because they are some of my favorite characters - Snape, Draco, Prof. McGonegal. The best part of the film vs. the book though, is that on-screen, the sexual tension between characters comes out so much better. It's hilarious, actually. Also, the plot moves extremely fast (they are trying to fit what should probably be a 6 hour movie into a mere 2 1/2 hours) so it might take some of you a few viewings. But the special effects are impressive and all in all, it is quite enjoyable. I think I'll probably see it over Thanksgiving in an IMAX somewhere with my little sister.

Anyhow, the weekend was relatively uneventful, but in a quite nice way. For once, I didn't have a totally oppressive amount of work so I spent a lot of time relaxing. Which is splendid. One semi-productive thing I did today was post a lot of pictures to thefacebook.com - so check them out if you have the time. Here's to a pleasant week and an even more pleasant Thanksgiving, readers. XOXOXOX

Tuesday, November 15, 2005

Quick confession

So, when I am wasting time on the internet, I often read Stuart's diary (Stuart from Belle and Sebastian, that is). It's actually great and he writes quite beautifully. There was finally a new update a couple days ago, and there are some comments on living life that I feel everyone should take in. Besides, it's just a charming read. He's just charming. I can't wait until they tour the U.S. again this spring. Who's coming?

Music is one of the greatest sources of joy in life.

New Belle and Sebastian album February 7!!! But supposedly, they'll be releasing a couple things before then. How exciting!

Johnny Cash songs that are wonderful but I hadn't heard before (because I typically only listen to the older stuff):
"One Piece at a Time"
"Highwayman"
"The Wanderer" (with U2)
"The Man Comes Around"

Olivia, when are we going to see Walk the Line?

Paul, don't worry - no one expects you to wear pastels. You are far too fabulous for that. Kisses. Do you know about your end of year exams yet?

Monday, November 14, 2005

Thoughts on Comments

Why would you have a blog without comments? It drives me nuts. I feel like these people are the same ones who surround themselves with those who will never contradict them. Not that I ever post anything quite so controversial as to stimulate a flurry of comments, but perhaps someday I will. Until then, I welcome any thoughts from my (few but altogether lovely) readers. I don't thrive on confrontation or anything, but I'm not afraid of it. I love a friendly debate - I feel like I always leave having learned something about myself and about the other participators. I don't ever mean to offend anyone, but that's why I bring things up like religion or philosophy or art; it's a great topic to incite passionate feelings. I feel like these areas give us a great base to relate to one another as human beings. I don't need a meaning to my life, but I am intrigued by the infinite possibilities of one. Does that make sense? What do you think? Feel free to comment.

In a related topic, I have noticed a trend of being completely disenchanted with Penn by senior year. I'm not saying this is one particular person, or even most of the people I know, but there's definitely at least a handful of people who used to be very enthusiastic about life, both life here and life in general, who have recently become very tedious. Naturally, I'm really against it. The thing is, we may have outgrown our initial reasons for attending, but would you ever really give them all up? Do you honestly think there's a place you could spend four years in and still be happy? Or are you maybe just an easily discontented person? In truth, I still really love it here. And I'm in WHARTON. Seriously, if there's one place you could easily grow tired of (via the pretentiousness, seriousness, egoism, etc.) it's Wharton. But nope, I still love it. Penn and Wharton. Penn is seriously GREAT. GREAT professors, GREAT campus, GREAT traditions (we throw toast for heaven's sake!). And Wharton, you can't help but be amused by all of its quirks. For example, I don't plan on seeing as many pastel-shirted men until I'm retired and in the fabulous nursing homes of Miami. If you're going to let a couple seemingly pretentious people get you down, you're going to have a very hard life. The truth is, we have it SOOOOOO good. I know this probably isn't something most people think of daily, but please be thankful you have a home, food, family, friends - not to mention an incredible WORLD of opportunities! It's just so depressing when people in an ideal situation can't even see it. I mean, maybe it's because I went abroad and got a bit of a break, but I don't think so. Anyhow, I've said my piece. Don't be brought down by others' expectations of you. I've always tried to play a little scene in my head whenever I feel like I'm not living up to what others think I should be doing: the scene is me, in a black dress, with a large rimmed black hat and large sunglasses, flinging myself against a wall, and running the back of my hand across my forehead and softly saying "but darling, a wild one such as I cannot be constrained by social norms." [hehe - I'm not melodramatic AT ALL, clearly] Typically I emerge from this daydream and go up to my room for a private dance party. Because my truth is, that I only have to do what I want. Real estate analyst, stay at home mom, investment banker, Peace Corps, CEO, author, intellectual hobo - it doesn't matter to anyone but me. College is college. In college, the only person you should care about is yourself. No one is depending on you. Be selfish, but in the way that leads you to be happy. Just do what you want. When did that get so hard for everyone?

I'm gonna go listen to Cash and ponder some more. I'm not trying to be self righteous or offensive or insulting or anything really. I'm just so happy and I hate to see others so discontented with life. Life is fan-bloody-tastic.

Johnny Cash print bought at a cafe in Connecticut with my darling Olivia. My wall has never looked so good.

Other cd

I forgot to mention the other cd that came today: The Legend of Johnny Cash. Was well worth the money just for the cd insert - but the music is absolutely terrific. Honestly, a must have. And as I had no other Cash cds (lots of stuff downloaded, but no actual purchases made) - I felt it was an obligation whose time had come due, especially since it goes quite well with the Cash print I bought in Connecticut (I'll post a pic). Anyhow, despite missing all of my classes, today was a great day. I've gone Christmas crazy - even put fairy lights up over my windows - and made a new Christmas mix (beginning with a little Mariah Carey, of course [PAUL]). Hehehe - it's definitely possible that I'm losing my mind, but it feels so nice. Oh and I baked a KICK ASS Jewish Apple Cake. Thanks mom! I'm in love with the world today, so that means all of you too - hope that puts a little warmth in your night.

More excessiveness.

So, I realized that today was going to be a good day when I went outside to get the mail. My cd's that I ordered from Tower had arrived! I was extremely excited because I knew that today...TODAY! would be the beginning of the Christmas season for me. Why? Because one of those cd's was my favorite Christmas cd of all time - Bing Crosby's WHITE CHRISTMAS. Loooooooooove the Bing.

Anyhow, I put Mr. Crosby on, then I briefly lost my mind, and purchased over $100 of Christmas DVDs on Amazon.com. Dammit! But oh well, now I'm excited for them to come too! The purchase definitely included all of those great claymation films like Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer. Boy, are they hilarious.

Anyway, I know it's early for the Christmas thing, but I feel like I needed to put a positive and completely insane spin on my life this November. Early Christmas obsession is just the thing. P.S. We are totally having a Chrismukkah party at the house, and don't worry, I'll plan this one.

P.S.

I am revisiting the "About A Boy" soundtrack - LOVELY!!!

Also, Paul, even though I promised, your package is not yet in the post. Be patient, love. I promise it will be worth the wait. =) P.S. You're the sweetest person I know, an absolute treasure. Make sure Euan knows it. I'll see you either in January or March, hopefully.

Also, that was a lie about the scotch. I actually just went back to reading about corruption in Kazakhstan. Oh, the trials and tribulations of my life.

And was it just me, or did tonight's Family Guy really push some limits? Hehe, gotta love it. Although I loved "college Stewie". "Isn't that EPIC?!"

Sunday, November 13, 2005

"Nice day for a sulk"

Today was beautiful. Unfortunately, I had a mountain of work to do. Figuratively, it was the Mt. Everest of groups projects + readings + research + a billion other things. I wish I could've just taken off on a nice walk. I can't believe it's November! Am I the only one?

Anyhow, the weekend was quite nice, despite the pressures of academia. I already told you about Shopgirl, last night we had a surprise 21st birthday party for Justine, which was lovely. Sorry to anyone if I seemed like a big bitch at the beginning of the soiree, I was put in a very uncomfortable position. Anyhow, a little glass of "calm your nerves" wine was just the trick and soon Olivia and I were cutting a rug on the dance floor. Justine was incredibly surprised and it was great to see everyone who showed up.

I've had to give myself a lot of pep talks lately. It's kind of what I do when I feel like I'm getting buried alive, again, figuratively. Thanksgiving is soon though, which is good. I'll have to chill out then. I can't wait to eat limitless amounts of turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, stuffing and all of that other horribly bad for you food that we eat on Thanksgiving. Citizens of the United States (my Emerging Economies professor is always yelling at us for using the word "American" to describe U.S. residents - because we're not the only Americans, i.e. residents of South America, Canada, etc.) are so indulgent - it's fabulous! *Note: Of course there is a little part of me that feels entirely guilty about our excess, but I feel in a way obligated to play the card I've been given, i.e. live it up now and hope to do good in the future* AKA Melinda is a horrible person.

Hehehe. Shit. Now I do feel really guilty. I'm going to have a glass of the finest scotch and go to sleep in my beautiful bed.

Saturday, November 12, 2005

I forgot the punchline.

George Weiss ended up giving $14 million to the scholarship fund. That's what was in the envelope.

Pre-speech good hair.

Haha - my "Newsie" costume for my Halloween day classes. It was fun explaining to people that I was dressed up as a "depression-era newspaper boy from a Disney musical".

Speech and Shopgirl Review.

So... the speech went wonderfully. I was so incredibly nervous, especially after seeing the hundreds of people all dressed up, but it was fine. Funny though - first the president of the university, Amy Gutmann, spoke (and she is an awful public speaker, nice lady, horrible speaker) and then George Weiss (Penn kids - like, of the Weiss Tech House). Well at the end of his speech, George gives Amy an envelope (which of course, everyone knows is some kind of donation) - and then I have to go on. Well, I mentioned that it was one tough act to follow and that my speech would not be ending with an envelope. They laughed and the speech went on flawlessly. I was charming like you wouldn't believe (or maybe you would....). Anyhow, the DP wants to talk to me, so look in Monday's paper!

Last night, Brigit, Amy Woodbridge and I went to see Shopgirl and I was definitely pleasantly surprised. Although I would not recommend that anyone with ADD go and see it (the plot definitely was not a fast-moving one) - it was incredibly charming and insightful. Jason Schwartzman was hilarious, Steve Martin showed that he is actually a pretty good actor and Claire Danes was good as well. It was definitely worth the viewing. And you leave feeling pretty good, although a little wistful.

Thursday, November 10, 2005

I heart Monk's.

Monk's Cafe, that is (although I do have a similar fondness for members of the spiritual brotherhood). The A-list of Wharton ladies (myself, Brigit, Leslie, Meghan, Michelle and Lindsey) made a special outing last night to indulge and truly celebrate our fabulousness (not to mention give us a break from our insane work schedules). It was such a ridiculously good time, I can't even explain. We all got terribly drunk off of our delicious Belgian beer; Les, Linds and I destroyed three different kinds of mussels; I have never eaten so many pommes frites; the music was absolutely ludicrous (first The Smiths, then Clap Your Hands Say Yeah!, then The Postal Service); and the desserts....oh my goodness the desserts. Not to mention the glorious company and conversation. I don't think I've ever had a more perfect night out (with the possible exception of the trip to Monk's with the nametags, that was pretty great as well). Monk's Cafe is just wonderful. The staff is wonderful, the food is wonderful, and the beer is out of this world. If you live in Philadelphia and you haven't gone yet, what are you waiting for? Go go go!

For the most part, my life has been pretty tame, but busy. I'm giving a small speech tonight in front of like, 500 people, so that's got me a little nervous. I've been going to mad job interviews, but I don't know... nothing's got me terribly excited yet. I have a preceptorial (class that not's for credit) tomorrow on Harry Potter. =) Yesterday was Becky's half-birthday (her 19 1/2 birthday, I might add) and I got a voicemail from her explaining that she called me in anticipation of me calling her to wish her a happy half-birthday. This kid! Katie's going to come and stay with me in the city over Thanksgiving break, which should be quite cool.

I suppose I could give you some song recommendations:
"The Recluse" by Cursive
"Halls of Mirrors" by Louis XIV
"Cemetry Gates" by The Smiths (don't know if I've mentioned it before but it's been pretty much my favorite song as of late)
"Jenny Wren" by Paul McCartney

Hope your lives are going swimmingly as well. Ciao lovers!

Thursday, November 03, 2005


This kid. Gelfand as Robin, after the dynamic duo split up (he confessed later that he had to dispatch with Batman, due to a bad breakup).

I love when friends from different parts of my life connect! Ms. Monroe giving Justine the bumblebee a little post-party loving!

Lura, exploring her inner "medieval princess".

Johanna made a lovely Greek goddess in a Gilbert family vintage costume. =) Tash, myself, and Brigit also wore costumes originating from my family.

Natasha, a sexy vampire (whose teeth were apparently stolen by "some skanky guy") and Nat, the lovely Ginger Spice.

Andrew's frat's senior brothers all dressed up as the cast from Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure. Kaylock, the Asian Canadian, made a surprisingly good Abe Lincoln.

Justin, our resident "babe magnet", and Jason, aka The Hamburglar. For those of you who might be wondering, yes, Jason did later on go to McDonald's and try to steal hamburgers.

Roomies!! Terry is definitely the hottest nurse I've ever seen.

Haha, I actually can't NOT laugh while looking at this pic. Josh Kamins was a big baby. He even brought sippy cups!!

LANCASTER!!!

Where's Waldo? Mike, aka the Fonz, Tom, aka a huge nerd (props for staying in character all night buddy!), Amy, Kate the pink lady, and Jeff as Waldo.

Scary and Baby Spice (aka Jasmine and Amy).

Brigit, a saucy little gypsy.

Pre-party shot of Amy Schneider and myself! We are such hot stuff.

Halloween etc.

So as many of you know, my house hosted an absolutely fabulous Halloween party last Friday and, I must say, it turned out quite well (with the exception of the fog machine setting off the fire alarm). Everyone put so much effort into their costumes, it was amazing. And I want to make a big shout-out to my one-and-only mum right now for making me the greatest costume ever!!!! (there'll be pics posted, don't you lovelies worry)

Besides that, it's been the same old. I've been asked to speak at a scholarship gala next Thursday, and I'm having lunch with some trustees tomorrow, and some notable alumni on Friday. It's Homecoming this weekend, so the football game should be a good time. Brigit and I have decided that hot chocolate with peppermint schnapps is the way to go.

Besides school and interviews, nothing else is new. Life has deteriorated into an unending cycle of school work, work work, and drinking. Does anyone else's life feel like this, or just me? Oh well, things will come together eventually. Until then, I suppose I just have to enjoy the ride. Kisses.

P.S. Much love to Paul, who just celebrated his 19th birthday! I love you hubbie!

Thursday, October 27, 2005

100th Post on this Blog!!!

What a landmark post! This is actually going to be quite a Hemingwayesque entry - just the facts, folks.

Stars/Death Cab for Cutie concert - SUBLIME!!! In all ways. Firstly, it was great catching up with Tom beforehand, because, due to mass quantities of academics, we haven't seen eachother in awhile. Stars were impressive - get some of their music ASAP. Death Cab were as great as I knew they'd be. Ben Gibbard is my hero.

Download: "First Day" by the Futureheads (particularly Whartonites heading out into the job market soon), "Precious Metals" by the Russian Futurists, and "Casimir Pulaski Day" by Sufjan Stevens. Ciao lovers!

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Music

Death Cab tonight! Yay!

I can't stop listening to "Evil" by Interpol (for some bizarre reason) or anything by The Rapture. I don't know what it is. I just love booty-shaking music.

Also check out "Eleanor Put Your Boots On" by Franz Ferdinand and the remake of "Solsbury Hill" by Erasure. I also forgot how much I looooooove John Denver's "Thank God I'm a Country Boy". =)

Monday, October 24, 2005

Good weekend, intense week.

After an appendicitis scare on Thursday night, I felt the need to go home last Friday and be waited on by my mother so I could hopefully recover fully in time for my uncle Ralph's wedding on Saturday. So my mother and sister picked me up Friday afternoon and I spent the night receiving back massages, warm Alkaseltzer, and puppy kisses. And recover I did, dear readers!

I traveled to my uncle's wedding totally refreshed and rejuvenated. It being a Keen wedding, there was an open bar even though the wedding began at 11 AM (reception was from 12-5 PM). Needless to say, there was much dancing and everyone was drunk by 5, including my darling grandparents. It was also the first time I caught the bouquet (actually I didn't catch it - I know better - but my 15 year old sister Katie did, so everyone made me go up there for the garter part - which was hilarious, since everyone in the room knew me and Eddie (who caught the garter)). What a horrible tradition!

So, it being early still, my uncle Kevin invited everyone to his house. I drove Eddie's massive diesel truck over there and the fam continued with the debauchery. Then Kevin and Ralph's friends mentioned a jazz festival in Media and wondered if I'd like to join. Well why not? It ended up being an INSANE night of bar-hopping, jazz, and computer games (has anyone else ever played them at a bar? so much fun!). Which actually meant that we had all been drinking pretty much from noon to 3 AM (we actually ended up hanging out in this one bar almost an hour after it closed). All in end, friends, it was a wonderful weekend.

Unfortunately though, all good things must end and I really must get back to studying for my real estate investments midterm. I have a TON of schoolwork this week (as usual), but a forgotten-about treasure popped up today. I had failed to remember the Death Cab for Cutie concert ticket I purchased way back in August, I think, and the concert is tomorrow! Very exciting! I can't wait - the opening band, Stars, is quite good as well.

So I'll keep you updated. Hope you are all doing splendidly.

Friday, October 21, 2005


Natasha and Natasha! (Like that Woody Allen film... you know the one I mean) ;-) I love my new puppy.

Laura was the only one who actually climbed a tree to get at the apples. She looks so happy up there too!

Brigit enjoying the sweet fruits of our labour.

I love pumpkins... a lot.

Lura and Natasha bringing home our bounty!

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Fall Break

I've only been back one day and I'm already exhausted again. I can hardly believe it. But fall break had its moments.

I didn't go anywhere, but my favorite girls and I rented a car to go apple-picking. We went to Linvilla Orchards in Media, PA. Lura, Laura, Natasha, Brigit and I had a blast! Seriously, apple-picking is highly underrated. I'll put some photos on.

Then, I got a call from my parents - they got a new puppy! It's a sweet little golden retriever and so we drove to my house to go see it. My mom got it for my little sister Katie as her Christmas present, so when we got there, there was a small Christmas tree set up and my mom had gone to look for some Bing Crosby. Katie was at a volleyball tournament, so we got to play with the pup and take some pictures. Katie came home and we had placed the puppy in a basket underneath the tree. Katie came in and hugged me and started to tell me about the tournament, not even NOTICING the fact that it had turned into Christmastown at the Gilbert house. Eventually I had to guide her attention to the tree where she stood in shock as if she didn't believe it was real. But once she got it - it was perhaps the cutest thing I've ever seen. She was SOOO happy and jumping up and down and hugging everyone. It was a truly wonderful moment. She ended up naming it Natasha, which N. Fedder was pysched about. I'll put some pics up of her too.

Since then, I've turned into the same old workaholic. Ah well. Life is still pretty good and I do like my classes, I'm just afraid they're going to kill me.

This is what I got from the 45-question one, which is supposed to be more accurate! =)

Friday, October 14, 2005


My poor mother. Hehe, it is funny though.

Sometimes I like to take pictures of myself making funny faces. But shhh, don't tell anyone. I'll sound crazy.

I went home recently to see Katie off to her first Homecoming. Ain't she just a beauty, braces and all?

Becky and her friend, Pia, who is from Perth (Australia, not Scotland). Becky gets to go visit her in December, which should be awesome.

I was feeling a bit defeated, and my darling Brigit went and bought me roses. Aren't they beautiful?! Isn't Brigit just a doll?!

Once again, the Wharton monster rears its ugly head.

I had a great post. I was writing it not ten minutes ago. Every word was pure poetry. It was witty, insightful and optimistic. Then my computer froze. All was lost. Felt a bit like my life as of late. I've been trying so hard with academia, but every time I think I've caught up, the rug is pulled from under me. Sigh. I guess I'm the one who signed the roster, I'll deal. I used to have all these theories on living. Want to know what it is now? Do what you have to, go to bed, get up, do it all over again. That's all my brain can handle right now. I feel like some sort of possessed learning robot. Maybe I've turned into Hindin. Nah, never!

Anyhow, I'm not even going to try and get back what I had in the previous post. It's gone, I suppose it wasn't mean to be. I'll boil down the important points though.

My house is hosting a kickass Halloween party on the 28th. You're probably invited. And believe me, you're going to want to be there.

Concert reviews:

Sufjan Stevens...is gorgeous. The show was fab. His music is beautiful. See him if you can, listen to him either way.

Across the Narrows festival...I'll go by group:

1. Polyphonic Spree - insane, optimistic, lots of bubbles, literally.

2. Belle and Sebastian - musical ecstacy. Played lots of stuff from the new album, kids, it's gonna be a barnburner. One particularly good song used the phrase "white collar" a lot. Trust me, you're not going to be disappointed.

3. Beck - the most fun I've had at Coney Island this summer. There is a man...aviator suit, aviator glasses, dances better than anyone I've ever seen. He's touring with Beck, and that's his primary job - to dance and look cool. I think I might be in love with this aviator man. Was it the outfit, the dancing, or his face? That's one riddle which will never be solved. Beck was extraordinary. He played lots of Guero stuff, I danced the whole time, he played Loser, everyone sang, he played Two Turntables, I danced some more. We had to leave a bit early and he was playing Mixed Bizness as we pushed through the crowd (we had a great position about 30 feet from the stage, right in the center - I could actually see him the whole time, which is a big accomplishment for someone 5'3" tall). As Johanna followed me out, I started dancing like a fanny, mostly because I was so filled with joy, and as we got towards the back of the standing area, I noticed Johanna was not following me anymore. She had stopped to say something to some guy, I figured it was someone she knew. So I pointed at her, laughing and shimmying, and turned to continue vacating the stadium, ass shaking the entire time. I turned back again and the guy she was talking to smiled and waved at me, I just kept dancing. Then I saw who she had stopped to talk to: the lead singer of the Polyphonic Spree. Good thing I didn't look stupid.

Wow. Those show descriptions got much longer as I went on. Ah well.

I've been hit with a swarm of good news lately. A bit is highly classified, but one thing that's not, is I received an e-mail this morning from the Daily Show - I got tickets for a taping in January! That should be fun. I can't really complain. I mean yes, school is hard, but I knew that long ago. I'll survive. I hope you are all doing fine. And if you're not, please come and talk to me. Maybe I can help. But if not, I can promise you one hell of a dance party, and we all know that can fix just about anything. Have you ever seen that one Father Ted...

Saturday, September 24, 2005


Restaurant Week: Leslie and I at Cuba Libre. As always, the food was magnificent and it was soooooo lovely seeing Leslie again! Isn't she gorgeous? (Please ignore my cleavage!)

Restaurant Week: Amy and I at Zanzibar Blue. I'm smiling way too hard. But the food was great! (Mac n' Cheese with BBQ beef - who knew?!)

Justine, Tash and Lura at Zanzibar Blue. Note the mirrors and the picture of the half naked woman.

"A dreaded sunny day."

Actually, not dreaded at all - but more than welcome! It is 1 PM on a Saturday and already it's been like, the greatest day ever! I woke up early (as I opted to stay in last night and watch 80s film classics, due to my extreme state of exhaustion), showered and decided to go pick up eggs and milk. I walked outside at around 10 o'clock and was confronted by the most gorgeous day one could imagine. I do hope all of you are out there enjoying it.

Anyhow, I came back, fixed myself some scrambled eggs, called my sister, and watched an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm. That show is hilarious. Thank god for Video on Demand. Then I decided that I just needed to get out there and do something. So I hopped on my good ol' bike and went for a spin around the Schulkyll (is that spelled correctly? God, I should know this...). It was BEAUTIFUL (yes, the Schulkyll, despite the sewage, can be beautiful sometimes). Everyone seemed like they were in a really good mood. I had my iPod, which kept fortuitously turning out Stevie Wonder tunes - which actually went fantastically with my mood. Then, as I was biking back to 4238 Spruce, Life is a Highway came on - and my goodness, I cannot even describe how perfect it was. I believe everyone's life should have a soundtrack - all the time.

Now I'm here, and deciding what I should do next. I do have a lot of work to do. Plus interviews coming up. And my room could use a good cleaning. But jesus, the weather is SO NICE! Whelp, what I am sure I am going to do is pull up the blinds (actually they are already up, that's a big lie) to my bay window, let the sun shine in, and put on some Belle and Sebastian. If She Wants Me will do quite nicely. Perhaps a walk then. With my camera. Ah yes. Good plan.

Enjoy your day!

p.s. Title of post is from Cemetry Gates by the Smiths - get it now!!!

Friday, September 23, 2005

Musik - nochmals!

Ben Folds concert at the Electric Factory

Download some Tegan and Sarah - "Where Does the Good Go" and "City Girl" are a good start

Loving the Brigitte Bardot and Serge Gainsbourg duet - Bonnie and Clyde

Thursday, September 22, 2005

More concerts!

Kimmel Center concerts:

Bright Eyes with Feist and the Magic Numbers!
Emmylou Harris
Brad Mehldau
The Black Watch (British Isles theme - pipers, Celtic dancing, etc.)

Check the Kimmel Center website.

I can bust on Wharton because I have to deal with this shit.

Haha, I find this school more ridiculous all the time. A poll, located on MySpike (Wharton's student portal):

What emblem do you prefer on your shirts?

Alligator
Flag
Golden Fleece
Moose
Pony
Sailboat
Tiger
Whale
Wharton
Anything, as long as the collar's popped


Clearly, these are the vital issues facing tomorrow's business leaders.

Sunday, September 18, 2005


The birthday kids! Justin and my old roomie - Terry Shu!

Jason, pitching his "short shorts" party idea. It's funny, right?

Terry and Justin's Party: This is the most pissed-off I've ever looked in a picture. If you have details pertaining to why I was so angry at Josh, please relay them to amelinda@wharton.upenn.edu as soon as convenient, so I may properly address the night's proceedings. =)

Tom molesting Mike at Justin and Terry's party.

My life has been consumed by the Wharton monster!

Clearly, I haven't written for awhile and the title explicitly states why. My classes seem great, but hard as balls, so we'll see how I manage. Plus - it's recruitment time, yippee!! Haha, there was some seriously heavy sarcasm there.

I have tons I need to write in here: my trip to Connecticut, hearing from an old flame of sorts, Jason's birthday party, Justin and Terry's birthday party, etc. etc. But unfortunately, I don't have the time to now. I have posted pictures from some of these events online, you can check them out at http://photos.yahoo.com/melindaupenn.

What I am going to do right now, however, is some music updates. I just got the new Blender and have lots of thoughts on their Top 500 songs lists (which I won't go into now), but I would recommend those of you who are interested, should take a look and let me know how
you feel about it.

Upcoming concerts (I am SO excited for these):
Sep. 28 - Sufjan Stevens at the TLA
Oct. 2 - Beck, Belle and Sebastian, Polyphonic Spree, and others at the Across the Narrows Festival at Keyspan Park, Coney Island
Oct. 25 - Death Cab for Cutie at the Electric Factory

Those being already purchased and confirmed, I would like to present some ideas for future concerts, which, should anyone want to go, I would be happy to attend. So let me know if you are interested in going to any of the following:
Oct. 14 - Franz Ferdinand at the Tower Theater
TLA Concerts: Broken Social Scene, Clap Your Hands Say Yeah (for charity), Richard Lewis (could be fun), Gang of Four, Echo and the Bunnymen
Killers/British Sea Power in Atlantic City

I feel like there were more but I can't think of them now. Anyhow, I'm always up for live music, so get in touch if there's something you want to go to.

Anyhow, artists/albums y'all should check out.

1. The Magic Numbers, The Magic Numbers
Extremely popular in the UK right now, highly pleasant, recommended by Chris Martin - I'm loving this band.

2. Bang Bang Rock & Roll, Art Brut
Not for everyone, that's my disclaimer. Described in some review I read as "art punk". I dig it though. Here's a quick excerpt from some lyrics "My little brother just discovered rock and roll; there's a noise in his head and he's out of control." Lots of rhyming, lots of statements, not necessarily a lot of singing. I would download "Emily Kane" and if you like that, then download more.

3. Illinoise, Sufjan Stevens
I mentioned this, but I felt I should reiterate how wonderful and beautiful it is. Gorgeous, touching, extremely easy on the ears. I love it. He's a genius.

4. Plans, Death Cab for Cutie
Another stellar album from Seth Cohen's favorite band. There's really no more to say.

5. Black Sheep Boy, Okkervil River
I find his voice soothing and the lyrics quite clever. King and A Queen is my favorite song off of this one.

6. Albums to check out soon (but that I haven't yet)
Takk, Sigur Ros - supposed to be amazing
New Franz Ferdinand - coming out Oct. 4, I think
New Kanye West - Tom, can I borrow this?
Twin Cinema, New Pornographers - I haven't had any downloading success with this yet

Now, artists that you, my faithful audience, should explore, for one reason or another. (Intro song is in parentheses)

Grand Buffet (Americus or Benjamin Franklin Music)
Andrew Bird (50 Pieces)
Dresden Dolls (Coin-operated Boy)
Erasure (Stop! or Take a Chance on Me or Always)
The Rapture (House of Jealous Lovers or Out of the Races and onto the Tracks)
Spoon (I Turn My Camera On or The Way We Get By)
Sleater-Kinney (Modern Girl)
The Russian Futurists (Two Dots on a Map)
The Go-Betweens (Born To a Family)
Amos Lee (Arms of a Woman)
Stars [opening for Death Cab] (Set Yourself on Fire)

Other stuff I've been listening to lately: a lot of White Stripes, Supertramp, the Pixies, Elvis Costello, revisiting some Weezer currently, Goldfrapp, the Libertines - the Futureheads cover of Kate Bush's "Hounds of Love" is great. I don't know. Tons of stuff. Have I mentioned how much I love my iPod? *Thought you might be wondering about the flourish of music stuff and its catalyst.*

So that's it for now. Please feel free to comment on this and any other of my musically-inclined posts (or any posts, really). I would like to hear what you liked, loved or hated. And I sincerely welcome any recommendations of your own.

Ugh. So back to work I guess. Ciao!

Thursday, September 01, 2005

Are these really today's role models for little girls?

I received a sample of the new Paris Hilton perfume today at Douglas and was both shocked and appalled by the "description" of the scent. Here goes (directly copied from package - including caps):

Paris Hilton

Paris is sharing the spotlight with her first Perfume.

Like Paris herself, it is Mysterious, Intriguing and Beautiful. Rich in its appeal, it defines that moment in time when powerful sensuality and breath-taking beauty are captured in a way that all can enjoy.

Share a bit of the magic that is Paris Hilton. Find out what it smells like to be a Star.




That's right kids - find out what it SMELLS like to be a star. I don't even think I really need to comment here. Just thought I'd share that with everyone. Honestly I cannot read it without simultaneously laughing at the ridiculousness of the present and weeping for the future. Cheers, Paris.

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

I know, I know...

...it's been ages since my last update! Sorry, my loving readers, I've been preoccupied. I'll briefly comment on the more interesting events of the past week or so.

The Aristocrats plus drinking with the gang: Fantastic! Laughed my ass off. Pretty sure Natasha was scarred for life by Bob Saget. Drinking was insane, as usual. I found out that every now and then, I turn into a ridiculous compulsive liar.

Clap Your Hands Say Yeah!, Grand Buffet and Magnolia Electric Co. show with Tom: was a bloody good time. I knew the first band would be great, I'm a big fan. You could really tell they loved playing. Grand Buffet was absolutely hilarious (I especially loved the part where they blamed Dave Matthews for ALL of South Africa's problems). And Magnolia was quite good as well. You can see Tom's blog for a more detailed synopsis.

Wine bar in my room last Friday: Olivia came down and Kamins moved in - so that was nice. Kate and Jeff joined us for arse-loads of alcohol plus a game of drunk Jenga, which led to some pretty crazy stuff (and also some pretty crazy pics - hopefully those will be up soon).

Cousin's wedding on Saturday: Typical family wedding - although I didn't drink (due to my intense hangover), inebriation abounded and wackiness ensued. Left a bit early, but heard that my uncle and (male) cousin did a striptease to Nelly's Hot in Here and then danced sexily (and I use that word very loosely) with eachother, to the delight of the dj and all of the guests. Love my family.

That's the short of it all, anyway. I'll post more soonish. Best wishes for a splendid end to each of your summers. XOXOXOX

Thursday, August 11, 2005

...more likely to buy SUVs...

This is such an amusing study and the results do not surprise me at all.

Music Music Music!!!

New Death Cab album = AWESOME!!!!!

Men Women & Children show = Dance-tastic!

Sufjan Stevens album = Beautiful to the max!

I'm at work, so I'm going for brevity. It works, no?

Songs to download:
"Summer Skin" Death Cab for Cutie
"Stop!" Erasure
"Seven Nation Army" Nostalgia 77 feat. Alice Russell
"Dear Scene, I Wish I Were Deaf" Nightmare of You
"Marching Bands of Manhattan" Death Cab for Cutie
"Don't Think Twice, It's Alright" Bob Dylan
"Get Big" Okkervil River
"People Are Strange" The Doors
"Concerning the UFO Sighting Near Highland, IL" Sufjan Stevens
"Debra" Beck

Speaking of Beck - - - www.acrossthenarrows.com

E-mail me or comment if you want to go. I want to go so bad. I can taste the desire. Oh, the anticipation. Shivers.

Monday, August 08, 2005

Cautious

Check this shit out.

This could go so wrong in so many ways. Pray for Kerouac's ghost that they manage to squeak out something brilliant. How can you take a book that good and expect to meet the quality on the screen? I don't know how I feel about this. That's a lie. I do know. Cautious and a little sad. I hope I'm proven wrong, but some books, I feel, just aren't meant to be movies.

Sunday, August 07, 2005


Pretty mommy by the Garden Railway.

Those are my gigantic devil horns. I'm a bad, bad girl.

I'm going to attack your tiny tiny village!

My mom as Tree Woman.

Saturday, August 06, 2005

Blarneys, Mum, and Oompa Loompas (sp?)

It seems like Sunday. Genuinely. But, fortunately, it is only Saturday. Perhaps that's one reason I'm not in the mood to party. I feel that my body honestly believes that it is Sunday. Ah well. My weekend started on Thursday, so I suppose some R&R is probably in order.

Recap:

Thursday night we all went out to celebrate Natasha's last day of classes for her first summer session as a working woman. She handled her 2 1/2 drinks brilliantly - which, for Tash, means she got smashed. I believe that paucity was involved. It was my first trip to the Blarney Stone (I've actually kissed the real Blarney Stone!), a well known campus watering hole. 50 cent drinks and lots of cute boys contributed to one hell of a night. I think all who were present feel the same. I had the delight of talking to one particularly attractive specimen (Justine, I believe you received a call). I, naturally, had more than 2 drinks. =)

Friday, after work, my mom came to visit. I had missed her a lot so I was really looking forward to spending the weekend with her. We went out to Mixto, which was on Antique Row and which I highly recommend. The Latin fare was excellent and the prices quite reasonable. We then headed to Natasha's beloved gayborhood for some well-deserved gelato. My mom had never had gelato before and I had never heard such orgasmic noises emitting from her mouth before (thank the lord!). It was actually a very pleasant night and so great to just sit and chat with her again. I haven't really made it home much this summer.

Mum stayed over and this morning we woke up bright and early and headed for beautiful Chestnut Hill and the Morris Arboretum. It was spectacularly gorgeous and my mom loved it. She's very into plants, she's even a member of the Pennsylvania Horticultural Society. What a nerd. =)

Unfortunately, mom had to head back after lunch. I was pretty exhausted (I think that's the first time in monthes, nay, years that I'd gotten up at 7 AM on a Saturday) so I pretty much chilled for the rest of the afternoon. I did get to view a bit of Kate's Indecision 2004 dvds which were both incredibly wonderful and incredibly tragic (because we now know how the story ends). Sigh. I'm glad they decided to do this dvd collection because I missed all the good election Daily Shows due to being in the UK at the time. I should send them a thank you.

And then tonight, I FINALLY went and saw Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. While it's hard not to feel....errr... squeamish about a few elements when mentally comparing it to the original - when I thought about it and totally wiped the original out of my mind - I really really loved it. Not that I didn't think there were parts that were maybe better than the original, and parts where I enjoyed the original much more - they were just very different. As were Depp's and Wilder's interpretations of the Wonka role (although I do believe undoubtably that this Charlie is far superior). I just got back though, so perhaps I need a bit more time to mull it over. But VERY enjoyable, very visually exciting, very funny. And I do stand by my previous statement of Depp making any role sexy. =)

Anyhow, I think I'll be taking it easy tonight. I hope you are all having glorious evenings in your respective locations. Good night, faithful audience.

Tuesday, August 02, 2005


I found this picture whilst perusing my photos. In case anyone was wondering, this is what Scotland looks like from an airplane. Note the wing in the upper left corner. =)

Brigit and Andrew are housesitting in Mt. Airy this week. Lucky bastards!

Self Betterment Week

Hello everybody! Welcome to Melinda's first self betterment week of the summer. Typically I would have had one way before this, but I was having too much fun. So it goes.

Feeling pretty good about things. Made a trip back to Huntsman for the first time in awhile - actually realized that I do miss it, quite a bit. Strange, huh? The building that's caused me so much agony in the past...

Anyhow, after work I came back for a little bit to chill, and then biked down to Huntsman. It was my first bike ride in, literally, years. It was great, although I was a bit scared at first, cars can be quite intimidating. But I think I've got my technique back. It's like... err... riding a bike. =)

My purpose in going to JMHH was quite nerdy - I want to teach myself to use ARGUS, real estate valuation software, before the whole recruiting process begins in the fall. And actually, it's pretty fun! At least I think so, which means that probably most of you wouldn't feel the same way, but I suppose that's what makes us all different, especially in our little career pursuits. Still thinking about eventually getting a PhD though. PhD's are so sexy.

After JMHH, I had the good fortune to run into my lovely Natasha. I was going to go to the gym, but instead, I walked my bike down to her apartment for some well-deserved gelato. We chatted a bit and then I biked furiously back - it felt Fabulous.

Now it's a shower, strawberries, soda and a little downtime before bed. I felt like writing too.

Yesterday was Deanna's birthday. We all went to the Olde City Continental for drinks and dinner which was very enjoyable, despite the dim-witted waitress ("Can I get you some Fiji water?" "You don't have to wink at me!").

Sunday was my darling little sister's 15th birthday - she's getting so old! I can hardly believe it (nor do I want to). I got her a Penn hoodie (such a cop-out, but she liked it nontheless) and she earned some dvd's and video games as well. It was nice spending this weekend with the family. I do miss them a lot sometimes, although I am enjoying living here very much.

Saturday my parents came to retrieve me from the city and we went to my grandparents' house in South Jersey to acquire Katie. My grandmother told us all about her very obscure and slightly frightening dream involving an abandoned house, a sport cars, orders to murder, and a man exposing himself. I adore my family so much.

I finished Harry Potter 6 sometime over the weekend, which was quite an emotional ordeal. Rowling's writing has improved so much - I was very impressed by the political and social commentary contained within, for a children's book, it is very well-developed, or so I think.

That's about it, I suppose. The self betterment should continue through the week and my mom may come visit on Saturday. That will be nice. So I shall say Good Evening, dear readers, and wish you all the best while I drift off to sleep.

Saturday, July 30, 2005

sane

Love will come through by Travis

Thursday, July 28, 2005


Yeah, I know he looks much younger, but we're actually the same age! Last Saturday at Monks.

Waiting for the Man

Today was a really great day, in all senses of the word. I mean, work was eh, but not bad - I got some really good stuff done, at least in the first half of the day, and I worked in some time to chat with my mom. The weather was absolutely PERFECT - you could not dream up better.

It was just filled with random nicenesses. Chatting with mom was one. Receiving praise from the boss was another. Receiving two cds from two different people. Buying Katie's birthday present. Happy hour at New Deck. Walking to South Street with Tom. Buying concert tickets (Clap Your Hands Say Yeah! at the First Unitarian Church). [Finally] buying The Velvet Underground & Nico (from which the title of this post comes). And tomorrow is Friday!

The day was honestly spectacular. I think it was mostly because of the weather. I am realizing how much the weather affects my mood lately. More the intense heat than anything else. Although intense cold has just the same effect. I hate weather that makes you just want to stay inside. Although I like rain... But anyhow, today was just wonderful.

And it was preceded by a rather decent week and a great weekend. My darling Olivia had come to visit on Saturday. We had a big dinner party in her honor, I made green and white lasagna (which turned out great, quite unexpectedly, as it was my first try), Kate made breadsticks, Deanna made salad, the boys brought wine, we listened to the Amelie soundtrack as we ate, there were namecards involved - it was lovely!

Anyhow, so after dinner, Tom, Andy, Olivia and I decided to go to Monks and we brought our namecards with us. We got seats at the bar and started the fun. I decided to drink scotch instead of beer, as their selection is quite intimidating, and I had my first taste of an Islay malt (Laphroaig 12 year) - which made me realize that I'm not a huge fan of the Islay. It wasn't bad, just VERY flavorful and peatish. So then after I had finished I took another look at the selection. I saw a "21" among the bottles and was quite intrigued. I queried the bartender, Bernadette, about the bottle and found out it was a 21 year old from the Orkney islands. It was a merchant label (The Glenhaven) which means that they buy surplus casks of a whisky and sell it in the States under their name. I wish I knew which distillery it came from, but I didn't examine it closely enough. Anyhow, I knew I wanted some. It was $15/dram but weeeellllll worth it. I was drinking a scotch as old as I am, fer Christ's sake! It was really gorgeous and definitely the best I've had thusfar. Smooth, slightly fruity, stimulating, light color, definitely full-bodied and robust. After that, although I did want more, my pocketbook was still scolding me, so I got a dram of a 12 year old MacCallan, which was quite nice as well. But the 21 year old was fabulous! While I was drinking, I struck up a conversation with a man behind the bar, who turned out to to be Tom, the co-owner, and a lovely person. We chatted about wine, Scotland, and of course, scotch. He also complimented us on our namecards! It was a really fantastic evening.

Well, I have been indulging in my Harry Potter habit and Tom just brought me the most recent publication, so I think I'll go start it. Have a splendid night, friends and lovers.

The Way I See It

I found this on my Starbucks cup this morning:

"The Way I See It #37
Embrace this right now life while it's dripping, while the flavors are excellently woesome. Take your bites with bravery and boldness since the learning and the growing are here in these times, these exact right nows. Capture these times. Hold and kiss them because it wil soon be very different.
-- Jill Scott"

Ok, so this was shocking enough - Starbucks advising me how to live my life, attempting to be inspirational, yet numbering their little stolen "insights" etc. But whatever, that I can deal with. What really got me was what was underneath said quotation:

"This is the author's opinion, not necessarily that of Starbucks."

Ok - WHAT exactly are they afraid people are going to believe here?? What do they envision might happen if someone believes this is actually the opinion of Starbucks? Are they afraid that someone is actually going to find life, take bites out of it, lose some teeth, and sue them?! Some days I feel that my father may just be right about a couple of things.

*Octuple (??? Is that real???) sigh*

Friday, July 22, 2005

Buy this!!

I always mean to write album recommendations on here, but I forget so here is a couple OUTSTANDING (and I don't use the capitalization lightly) albums:

1. Buy immediately - Funeral by the Arcade Fire.... I think they are my favorite new band of the year. Amazing. And beautiful.

2. Also buy immediately - Demon Days by Gorillaz... loving it. Hard to not dance to. Get it.

Songs to download (not all new songs but all good) - basically it is a "what is Melinda listening to these days" sort of list: Colours by Donovan, A King and a Queen by Okkervil River, Sexx Laws by Beck, Lost and Found by Clap Your Hands Say Yeah!, Cocaine by Eric Clapton, Banquet by Bloc Party, Night Moves by Bob Seger


GO, MUSIC LOVERS, GO AND FIND YOUR FORTUNES!!

Tuesday, July 19, 2005

"Someone told me long ago, there's a calm before the storm..."

...I know! It's been comin' for some time."

Note to readers: Be careful what you wish for!

Sunday, July 17, 2005


Sisters! At the Zoo!

Katie, kissing one of her "guns" in the bird house.

Welcome home Johanna!

Fireworks!

The boys (or boyz if you'd prefer to match the wording to the decor) at the after party.

At the after party - I may have had a few....